The act must be between two consensual adults who have come to a mutual understanding and know what they want. Here are some acts or behaviors that can be considered rape without necessarily involving any physical struggle:1. Rape apology: This refers to the ideas, opinions, and arguments suggesting that rape is excusable in some circumstances and that victims are to be blamed. In this case, rape apology does not mean a sign of regret but an act of constantly defending a rapist or the act. You may not have raped someone but constantly defending rapists and their acts facilitate and enable rape culture.