Then we step into this confusing phase of having to guess everything they do, wondering whether they are into you or not. In this article, we'll explore some tell-tale signs that they may not be into you. So, if any of the things we’ll tell you here rings a bell, you are better off without that person and you deserve someone way better. Talking about themselves too muchUsually, when going out on dates, the person you are with would love to know more about you, and what you love and hate. Taking way too long to reply back, leaving huge time gaps between each reply and kind of ghosting you for hours, even days, are all signs they are not really into you5.