Dear Roe,My husband has been masturbating with one of his male friends. I found out a week ago when his friend was over and I came down to get a glass of water. He said he won’t ever do it again but he’s not committing to no longer seeing this friend. I just keep thinking if it was me and my best friend, and I can’t wrap my head around it. Sexuality is fluid and multifaceted, and your husband’s actions don’t necessarily define his sexual identity.
