My Husband Said God Wanted Him To Spank Me. Our Church Told Me I Couldn't Say No. I didn’t know what idea my husband was lubing up for, but I knew I couldn’t say no. When your church and God both say this is how marriage should be, where could I go? Tia Levings is the New York Times Bestselling author of “A Well-Trained Wife,” her memoir of escape from Christian Patriarchy.
