My grandfather told my mother that if she wants to go, she can go, but she should leave the baby with them and they would take care of me. He threatened me that if I should say anything to my grandparents, he would kill me, so I never told my grandparents anything. When I was 21 years old I met a man who told me how much he loved me. He wants to come to Jamaica and marry me. Now, your mother has come back into your life and she wants to offer help to you.