"Many will disagree with me especially straight women who are caught up in the web of getting married to gay men. A gay man who is in a sexual relationship with another gay man cannot marry, if he does, he could end up in jail for 40 years. "Next time before posting a comment on social media questioning why gay men are marrying straight women, think about the society you have contributed to create. Until we allow gay people to marry gay people... nothing will make them marry a woman. It could be you a gay man will get married to, your sister, your Aunt or your best friend.