[ Get more advice ]My husband was wonderful in so many ways after my stroke and was also a cheerleader for me. While I have some wonderful friends and neighbors in my life, some longtime friends are not kind. – Still HereDear Still Here: You deserve a cheerleader, and you deserve friends who are going to show up for you. A letter to Harper may be a good way of expressing what’s true for the letter writer, respectfully. You can give that letter to your friends to deliver but run it by a trusted family member first.
