Fred spent the entire weekend playing with the cats, brushing the cats, talking with the cats and he spent an hour trying to coax Mr. Whiskers from under the bed. Fred talks nonstop about his cats; on the rare occasion we go out, he’s constantly checking his security cameras to see what the cats are doing. – Cat’s Out of the BagDear Cat’s: Fred’s relationship with his cats is much longer than his relationship with you. Do they think that Joy’s parents won’t like you for some reason? Do they fear Joy’s parents will judge your home or be intimidated by it?