Dear Amy: Forty-two years ago, my uncle died by suicide. Surely, there should be some way of memorializing his short life? Their “memorial wall,” which features photos of people who have died by suicide – along with inspiring quotes – is deeply moving. Dear Amy: My husband and I have been married for 40 years. (You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O.