Today I’m sharing a thoughtful update from a reader whose question was first published in 2019. Normally when I have a free day or am passing by her campus, I’ll ask her for a coffee or lunch. I desperately want to reach out to Daisy and her daughter but am unsure how to do so. — Lost in LondonDear Lost: You should definitely reach out, and you should express your sympathy and concern. (You can email Amy Dickinson at askamy@amydickinson.com or send a letter to Ask Amy, P.O.