The absence or presence of a father plays a big role in how we turn out as adults. A father shapes the confidence of his daughter and ensures a child does not grow up with wounds of rejection and hopelessness. Also, since Victoria’s dad was a teacher, he would write schemes when she was doing her holiday homework. I will go with you!”Winner Mwende, 21, attributes her life's trajectory to having a present father. It was a bit troublesome.”As a result of not having her dad present, Joan admits that she aimed to fulfil his presence in every relationship she got herself into.